I’ve tried to keep my head out of libraryland over the holidays, so although I was dimly aware that Will Manley said something inflammatory about ALA’s new conference Statement of Appropriate Conduct, I hadn’t bothered to read it or much of the social media activity. Here’s why I did just now.
Last night a couple of Twitter friends had a conversation about this, one (a woman) arguing for the policy, one (a man) arguing that it was too vague and subject to personal interpretation.
This morning I wandered into another Twitter thread. Gina Trapani, a developer and startup founder tweeted at Michael Robertson, a serial entrepreneur, “Men are not innately better at being startup founders. Full stop.” Robertson and several other people chimed in to disagree, suggesting among other things that she read some neurobiology. It seems to me that if you can’t cite the scientific article conclusively proving that point (which doesn’t exist), what you’re saying is that women are innately inferior to men. If you can’t prove it, you’re just being nasty.
@mp3michael Men are not innately better at being startup founders. Full stop.
The substance of the two threads is very different, but the dismissive tone felt similar to me. That’s why I’m writing. Here’s what I think.
Manley is arguing that his right to be provocative trumps other attendees’ right to feel comfortable speaking at all. That’s bullshit.
Given that all of the people I’ve so far seen objecting to the policy are men, and given that social norms are such that men are generally more comfortable speaking their minds in public, and given that every time I look into a comment thread on a feminist topic online I see a bunch of guys acting like asses (seriously, check the comments on Manley’s post or my previous look at Adria Richards and Pycon), and given that my female friends who have spoken at conferences have lots of stories of being harassed, and given that the previous non-policy has resulted in actually favoring some speech over others,
As a middle-aged white male conference speaker and attendee in a predominantly female profession I am happy to err on the side of making everyone comfortable with speaking and conference-going. I’d love it if we could leave it at The Golden Rule, and I wrote the code of conduct for an event I’m helping organize with that in mind. But every time I look more closely at this issue I see why we can’t. That’s OK. A policy which makes women more comfortable speaking doesn’t threaten me unless I’m being a jerk.
I find myself headed back to ALA Annual for the first time in a few years, somewhat by surprise, so I’m gathering my thoughts and trying to remember what I’ve learned from previous trips. For what it’s worth, this is my memo to myself:
ALA is massive. The good news is that there’s a conversation about anything you’re interested in going on. The bad news is that means there are conversations about anything anyone might be interested in going on right now. Somewhere in a sprawl of convention centers and hotel meeting rooms in a major American city. The conference rotates between about a dozen major cities which have enough convention center space and hotel rooms to handle it, with frequent stops in Chicago, where ALA is headquartered.
Do some advance work to figure out what you might be interested in. Preconferences are always on the Friday, and most programs happen on Saturday and Sunday, with occasional spillover into Monday. This means there will usually be twelve things you’re interested in at any given time. That’s OK–note the ones that are close by and be ruthless about session-hopping.
The program planning people at ALA and the divisions make some attempt to coordinate, and to group programs into meaningful tracks based on the theme of the conference. Usually it’s easier to pick the ALA division(s) which make the most sense for you and follow their program stream.
American Libraries tries to pick out some programs of interest. Their choices tend to sound like ALA marketing to me, not because they’re bad but because they’re trying to address all the possible audiences of attendees. Which means 75% of it is probably not interesting to whoever you are.
If you’re at all introverted, ALA can be totally overwhelming. Give yourself space in your schedule to decompress. There’s also a limit to how much information you can absorb at once. I usually find that I hit the wall Sunday night and need to take a couple of hours off.
as little as possible
my favorite tea, so I can be vaguely awake before going to breakfast meetings
a bag to carry conference swag and gadgets in
a computer of some kind. I’m going to try ALA this time with an iPhone and some small Moleskine notebooks. I’ve done ALA several times with an eight-pound laptop on my back and it is *not* fun. Eh, I’m taking a programming workshop so I guess I’ll need to bring my Chromebook. Which I will cheerfully leave in my room all days but Friday. Your Mileage My Vary, but I take more useful notes on paper and I am *much* happier the less I carry.
a backup battery for your phone, esp. if you’re using a smartphone. You’ll be wandering in and out of signal all day and/or tweeting or otherwise using it all the time.
an extra layer for over-air-conditioned conference rooms
Eat real food. And understand that anyplace within a block or two of the convention center is going to be mobbed most of the time. Get out of the conference zone and find some interesting food in the broader neighborhood.
Watch for invites to vendor breakfasts and parties. Lots will advertise them by email to conference attendees, but they’ll also often have tickets at their booths.
Two main approaches to this.
1. Talk to everyone. Almost any sort of person you might want to meet is here, and the vendors in particular all know each other. You never know who you’ll end up next to in line or at lunch–your next job, someone who’s selling the product you came to look for. Both have happened to me.
2. Talk to a few people in depth. This is often more feasible for introverts, but it’s also more likely that you’ll build lasting relationships this way. Find out if the people in that mailing list you always read and post to will be there. Identify someone who has a project you’re interested in and offer to buy them a drink.
Managing the Association
ALA is ridiculously over-organized. It’s an umbrella organization for a loosely related set of divisions which all have different internal organizations and committee structures. They cover, collectively, anything librarians and/or libraries do or are interested in. The list of acronyms alone is really daunting.
Open Secret #1: Most ALA business gets done on relatively small committees who do most of their business at ALA Annual and Midwinter. The meetings are open, unless they’re explicitly marked “closed” or “private” in the program.
Open Secret #2: If you want to get involved, volunteer. I’ve never been to a business meeting for a group that wasn’t looking for help. Ever. Maybe they need someone to run the mailing list. Or help coordinate a program. Once, with a bad sinus infection while in New Orleans I volunteered to chair a group I had just introduced myself to. *and they said yes.*
Take notes, and report back to colleagues
Tell your boss and your colleagues what you saw, what you thought was interesting, and whether there’s anything going on that’s worth pursuing. I usually write up a few pages of notes on the sessions I attended and any particularly useful conversations I had. I usually take pages and pages of notes, but I try to boil the report down to a couple of pages of highlights.
This is how you secure your conference funding for the future: make it clear to your library what value they’re getting by sending you.
Remember to have fun
It is a professional conference, but it can be fun, too. Make a point of doing something interesting and non-conference-related in the host city. Maybe a nice lunch. Maybe a trip to a museum or a local sight. I usually visit the local public library, for example, but you can pick your own thing. I didn’t do this in Orlando in 2004, for example, and so all I can remember is how hot it was and how annoying the layout of hotels was. At a Midwinter in Seattle I took a harbor tour that I still remember quite well.